Farm fresh tomatoes with truffle salt

Farm fresh tomatoes this time of year are pretty much the best food ever.  They are so juicy and full and flavor, I can’t even imagine eating a tomato in the winter months.  I remember when I lived and worked in Woods Hole a couple of summers ago,  I would walk out into the vegetable garden and just eat tomatoes straight from the vines.  What could be better?  With that thought in mind,  I was strolling through the Dewey Square farmers market on Tuesday, I made a beeline for the tomatoes.

So what to do this said tomato?  I wanted a super simple dinner and wasn’t even wicked hungry, so I thought I might just cut the thing up and eat it with a little salt.  Summer dining at it’s finest (and might I add simplest).  But then I realized that I have a wonderful jar of truffle & salt in the cabinet that would make a simple summer tomato a gourmet snack!

Truffle salt is one of life’s wonders, let me tell you.  It’s an expensive item to buy, but it keeps for a long time and you don’t use a ton at a time.  I highly recommend buying some (I purchased mine at Williams Sonoma, but I’m sure you can find it online).  Once I sprinkled the truffle salt on the juicy tomato, I let it sit for about a half hour to let the flavors marry.

While I thought this is a pretty delicious summer treat, I thought  since it was dubbed my dinner, I should probably have something else too.  I bought this amazing block of cheese through Boston Organics this week from Neighborly Farms of Vermont, green onion cheddar cheese.  It has such a lovely, subtile green onion flavor and is just plain delicious.  And of course, it’s local and organics…more to love!  So I sliced up a little bit of the cheddar cheese and I was on my way to bliss.

This is exactly one of the best things about summer in my eyes.  You don’t have to go through leaps and bounds to have a huge dinner each night.  You can grab a few veggies or fruits and whip something up in a flash!

- Jackie

Published in: on July 29, 2010 at 8:28 am  Leave a Comment  

Flatbread Pizza Company

Three years ago when Matt and I were on our honeymoon, we were strolling through the little town of Paia, Maui, trying to kill time before our dinner reservations at Mama’s Fish House.   Paia is a cute village, and as we were checking out the shops, we caught a whiff of the most amazing pizza EVER.   As we passed by the Flatbread Pizza Company, drool collecting on the sidewalk below us, we were saddened that we had dinner reservations somewhere else (reservations that, if memory serves, I made before we even arrived in Hawaii – Mama’s is a pretty popular spot and tough to get into!).  Our hotel was on the other side of the island, so we knew we wouldn’t make the drive back to Paia.  Flatbread Pizza would go untasted…or would it?

Fast forward a few months to a weekend getaway to Portland, Maine.  While walking along the waterfront looking for a good lunch spot, we found a pizza place that looked good… and smelled familiar.   Upon reading the menu, we happily discovered that Flatbread has locations mostly throughout northern New England (Portland, Portsmouth, Amesbury, North Conway).  The Maui location was a total anomaly (not unlike the random Upper Crust in Key West).  So we heartily enjoyed our pizza that day, though we hoped Flatbread would one day open a restaurant that was closer to Boston.

And our wish has come true!  There’s a brand spankin’ new Flatbread in Davis Square.  Matt and I went for dinner last week and it was everything we remembered… and more!  The restaurant was built in a defunct bowling alley.  They kept 10 lanes open, and the rest of the space is restaurant.  So cool!  You can eat and bowl, or bowl and eat, or eat while bowling.  We only ate, since the wait for bowling seemed really long.  There was quite a mix of people (both bowling and dining) – families, college students, hungry bloggers.   We sat at the bar, which was great because we had a view of bowling:

and the kitchen behind us:

and the big wood-fired pizza hearth off to the side:

They had a great beer selection – just look at this row of taps!

As much as I love beer, I was ridiculously excited to see draft root beer on the beverages menu .   Ummm, yes please!   That must be the nectar of the Gods.  Unfortunately, I didn’t get to find out – they hadn’t hooked up that draft yet (we were there only days after it opened).  But since I had my heart set on root beer, I ordered a bottled one.  And it…was…delicious.  Seriously – good quality root beer is just SO good!

There were some clearly underaged college students next to us at the bar drinking bottles of sarsparilla.   I was amused.

The menu covers are all different pictures drawn by local grade schoolers.  I was probably less smitten with these than most people, since I see (and sometimes confiscate) grade schoolers’ drawings on a daily basis.  But it’s still a cute idea.

Flatbread is definitely a pretty crunchy place.  Everything on the menu is organic and natural and free range and pesticide free and nitrate free and peace and love and happiness.  I can dig it.  Especially because the food is so good!

We started by sharing the mixed greens salad.  Very simple, very good.

Then we ordered two small pizzas to share.  When they arrived, we thought there was no way we’d finish them… but we only left one piece.  Clearly there are portion control issues here.  I’m working on it.   But the pizzas were very light – not greasy or heavy at all.

Our favorite pizza was the Community Flatbread:  wood fired cauldron tomato sauce, caramelized onions, mushrooms, cheeses, and herbs.

We also had the nitrate-free pepperoni and mushroom.   I added a liberal amount of crushed red pepper to spice things up, and it was really good.  The crust is soooo delicious.  I could eat just the crust.  All day.  Every day.

Despite polishing off two full pizzas, we had room for dessert.  Well, we didn’t really have room.  We just stuffed it in anyway.  I mean, could YOU resist a brownie sundae where the brownie has been warmed in a wood-fired oven?  Didn’t think so.

We really loved our meal at Flatbread.  Everything was really delicious, and knowing that it’s all natural and organic and all that makes me feel a little less guilty for completely pigging out.  We’re hoping to head back there for a night of bowling and pizza sometime soon!

- Elizabeth

Published in: on July 28, 2010 at 8:44 am  Leave a Comment  

Lobster and corn quesadillas

What’s better than lobster soaked in melted butter?  Lobster melted with cheese.  And that’s exactly what I made for dinner last night.  When it’s summertime, all I want is lobster rolls, boiled lobsters, lobster egg benedicts, lobster pot pie, grilled lobster…am I sounding like Bubba from Forest Gump yet?  Anyways, I wanted to take some deliciously sweet lobster meat, mix it with some charred corn on the cob and throw it into a melty tortilla.  Add a little spiciness from the finely chopped jalapeno and we were onto one fine lookin’ meal!  Here’s what I did:

serves 2 hungry people or 4 smaller portions

1 1/2 pound cooked lobster (you can find them pre-cooked at the supermarket or just buy 1/4 lb meat)

2 ears of corn on the cob

1 roma tomato, diced

1/4 of a jalapeno or the like, finely diced

1  cup shredded sharp cheddar cheese

4 large tortillas

1/4 cup of sour cream mixed with 1 tablespoon Old Bay (optional)

Ahhhhh the lobster is attacking the Old Bay!

Okay, sorry moving on…

So I cracked the lobster to retrieve the meat, and chopped the meat into bite size pieces.  Then I wanted to char up the ears of corn, but I was feeling to lazy to hike up four stories to the grill, so I took the grate off the burner, cranked up the heat and stuck the corn on top of the flame.  Don’t worry Mum, I was very careful.

Then I ran my knife down the ears of corn to take off the kernels.  I went on to shred the cheese and chop up the tomatoes and jalapenos.  Once I had my ingredients ready, I melted a little butter in a sautee pan and began assembling.  My one tip for quesadilla construction is sprinkle the cheese on the bottom tortilla first, add the rest of the ingredients, then add more cheese.  That way, the cheese acts like a glue, holding the quesadilla together.

I tend to cook my quesadillas very slowly, on low heat, to make sure everything gets nice a hot on the inside, without burning the outside.  Once you have a successful flip and the second side gets nice a toasty, you are ready to chow down.

Dollop the Old Bay/sour cream mixture on the quesadilla and you are good to go. 

My beverage(s) of choice with the meal was the new Shipyard Summer Ale and homemade iced tea, sweetened with brown sugar.   Yes, I double fisted with dinner.

The quesadilla was so delicious…sweet lobster meat, sweet/smokey corn, a little spice and a little bit of sharp cheddar cheese.  I would definitely recommend this for entertaining…sure to be a crowd pleaser. 

- Jackie

Published in: on July 27, 2010 at 6:32 am  Comments (1)  

Cold Chocolate Fondue

This has been an insanely hot summmer.  I normally like the heat, but it’s been prohibitively hot and sticky for weeks on end.  This is a great recipe for a cold dessert that’s really tasty, really chocolately, and not too unhealthy.  It’s been a hit the times I’ve served it or brought it to an event, and it’s super easy to prepare.  

Ingredients:

3/4 cup semi-sweet chocolate chips

1 container Cool Whip

1 tsp vanilla or rum extract (I use vanilla)

1 tsp cinnamon

I use the giant measuring cup pictured to cut down on the number of dishes I need to do. 

First, melt the chocolate chips in the microwave – stirring every 20 seconds until fully melted.  Just be careful not to overcook! 

Then gently fold in the Cool Whip, making sure to keep the mixture smooth.

Add the vanilla or rum extract and cinnamon, and stir until fully blended.  Pour into serving dish and refrigerate for at least half an hour.  I usually serve with strawberries and/or pretzels, but you could also do cinnamon pita chips or other fruit slices. 

It’s so smooth and light, yet creamy, and very chocolately.  The cinnamon and extract really add a depth of flavor that will keep you coming back for more!  Enjoy and stay cool!

- Elizabeth

Published in: on July 26, 2010 at 8:28 am  Leave a Comment  

Stats Bar and Grill in Southie

Early last week a new restaurant hit the scene in South Boston…Stats Bar and Grill.  Stats is the sister restaurant to J.A. Stats on Broad Street in Boston.  It’s pretty similar to the other “higher end” sport bars in Southie, but of course we had to go and check it out for ourselves.  So Chris and I took the shoe leather express (or walked..haha) across Thomas Park and saddled up to a table overlooking the street.  It was super hot out, so we were thrilled the large windows were closed and a.c. on.  Sweet relief!

The menu actually looked somewhat decent and were kind of excited to try the buffalo calamari.  Umm hello? Fried, yes.  Buffalo, yes.  Sold.  They were pretty good, but I can’t say that they tasted a wicked lot like seafood, just fried, buffalo goodness.

We continued on to order cheeseburger sliders with sweet potato fries and a goat cheese, spinach and cherry tomato pizza.  Both were super good.  And might I add that the pizza was only $9. $9!!  I think it was pretty cheap for the size and how much they loaded onto it.  Saturday morning leftovers, athank you.

All in all, it was a pretty good meal and a tad bit higher end than regular bar food.  I just wish that some areas of the city would quit it with opening even more sports bars and open up another kind of restaurant.  Alas, I’ll have to gorge myself with sweet potato fries forever.  Life is tough.

- Jackie

Published in: on July 22, 2010 at 8:07 am  Comments (2)  

Anniversaryfest 2010: A Food Odyssey

Matt and I recently celebrated our third anniversary.   Our big day was July 14th, and our good friends, Kate and Matt, celebrated their fifth anniversary on July 16th (which also happens to be my birthday!).  Years ago, after Matt and I set our wedding date, we all decided that every year the four of us would celebrate together… and thus was born Anniversaryfest!   It’s a great excuse to get together, have a weekend away, and make the most of our joint celebrations. 

For our inaugural Anniversaryfest, we traveled up to Burlington, Vermont for a weekend.  We had beautiful weather, and we spent some time on the “Friend Ship” schooner exploring Lake Champlain (and searching for Champ, the legendary lake beast), having drinks on Church Street, and having more drinks at an outdoor Jimmy Buffet-themed bar that was completely incongruous with northern Vermont.  One night, over even more drinks, we devised a list of all the places we’d like to go on future Anniversaryfest trips.  It was a no-holds-barred list, including such vacations as:  a Mediterranean cruise, an African safari, Hawaii, Reykjavik, and the International Space Station. 

Last year we went international with Anniversaryfest.  We figured it might be the last year we could do a longer trip to farther away, and we were right – Kate and Matt are expecting their first baby in October!!!   So we took advantage of our freedom and invaded Canada.  We spent a few days in Niagara Falls, where we particularly enjoyed driving out to the lovely town of Niagara-on-the-Lake for dinner.   We also spent a day touring local vineyards and wineries – there are so many up there and they are really beautiful and produce great wine.  After Niagara we headed to Toronto, where we toured the city, visited the CN Tower, went to a Red Sox/Blue Jays game, and had some great meals.

Great meals is definitely a common theme with our Anniversaryfest trips.   We like to eat, and we like to eat well.  Last weekend we celebrated in the White Mountains of New Hampshire, and we definitely did a lot of good eating!  Here’s a journey through my gluttonous weekend of New Hampshire’s finest foods. 

I should note that our food fest began Thursday night with dinner at the Franklin Cafe, and continued Friday morning with breakfast at Flour before we got on the road.   Both delicious.  I must blog about Flour sometime soon!

On Friday we went to lunch at the adorably rustic White Mountain Cider Company.  We were staying at Bretton Woods, so we spent some time driving west to the Littleton area, and some time driving east to North Conway.  This place was a great find (closer to North Conway) with a general store/gift shop, delicious sandwiches, and some seriously amazing hot, fresh, apple cider donuts. 

On Friday night we headed to Littleton for dinner at Bailiwick’s Restaurant.  It had a really nice atmosphere – I’d describe it as comfortably modern Granite State casual.   The food there was really tasty.  Matt and I split a flatbread to start – shaved steak and caramelized onion.  Then I had the Tuscan Grill: grilled tomatoes, portabello mushroom, eggplant, onion, and a mystery vegetable (I made a wild guess about it at dinner, but now I forget what I guessed… it was probably wrong anyway) with grilled shrimp over wild mushroom risotto.   Delicious!

On Saturday morning we were somehow hungry again, and we drove over to North Conway for breakfast.  Our goal was to eat at the crepe restaurant, Crepes Ooh La La.  To give you some background, we, as a foursome, are kind of obsessed with crepes.  The obsession began on July 12, 2008 at the Skinny Pancake restaurant in Burlington.  We had all eaten crepes before, but we collectively realized our true love of the French delicacy on that one fateful day.  Such is our love of crepes that our Anniversaryfest Manifesto dictates that any location we choose to visit must have a local creperie.  In Toronto we enjoyed crepes at several different restaurants, and we were overjoyed to find that North Conway had its own creperie.   Unfortunately, when we arrived at Crepes Ooh La La, we discovered it wasn’t going to open for another hour.  We were despairing and confused – should we wait it out?  Or would our hunger win and send us into the local diner?   That’s when Matt came up with one of the greatest ideas of Anniversaryfest history:  have breakfast somewhere else and return to the creperie for dessert.  Huzzah!  Problem solved.   And it was actually quite fortuitous, because my breakfast was delicious!

Normally I’m not a big breakfast person (at a restaurant anyway) since I don’t like eggs or cheese.  That eliminates large portions of the menu for me.  But the Stairway Cafe humored my “eggs on the side, please?” and served me what may have been my favorite breakfast ever:  Huevos Rancheros Verdes (minus the huevos) - corn tortillas with pinto beans, avocado, salsa verde, and liberal amounts of cilantro.  Perfection. 

On to dessert crepes!  I had a nutella and raspberry compote crepe.   I believe I may have mentioned my obsession with nutella once or twice before…

Please note that after this giant breakfast and dessert, it was hard to tell which one of us girls was 6 months pregnant.

After a luxurious day at the Mount Washington Resort spa (for the girls – the boys played disc golf all afternoon), we gorged ourselves yet again, this time at the Moat Mountain Smokehouse and Brewery.   For an appetizer we had the chips and salsa, which were warm and salty and so good.  Then we split a bbq chicken pizza, and two giant plates of sliders (pulled pork and cheeseburger) with sweet potato fries.  Everything was really good – great barbecue sauce on the sliders!  The Matts both enjoyed the beer tasting flights. 

The next morning we stopped at Maia Papaya in Bethlehem on our way home.  No pics from there, but I had a really tasty plate of French toast.   

Clearly, I ate my way through the White Mountains this weekend.   It was, as usual, a fun (and delicious) Anniversaryfest.   Can’t wait until next year! 

- Elizabeth

Published in: on July 21, 2010 at 7:17 am  Leave a Comment  

Boston Organics and a recipe for Curry Dip

The organic food movement is pretty amazing,  growing by leaps and bounds all the time.  I’m not super huge into buying organic all the time, simply because it’s on the  expensive side, but I totally appreciate the fact that organic products, from fruit to clothes (yes, organic clothes) are readily available to us all.  I recently signed up for Boston Organics which is an unbelieveable service that delivers organic fruits and vegetables to your door.  

Courtesy of Boston Organics

 

You pick what kind of box you want to get: half vegetable half fruit, all vegetable, all fruit or anything in between, and then you choose if you want it on a weekly or biweekly basis.   Then when your delivery day comes, you receive a wonderful array of organic produce!  The produce differs from week to week, depending on what’s in season, but they try to include in-season fruits and veggies from local farmers.  

I get the smallest box because I don’t like anything to go to waste…I can always get more farm fresh fruits and veggies from the farmers market!  

  

They also have a “No list” which you can check off any fruits or veggies you may not like and don’t want to ever appear in your produce box.  Genius!  No cucumbers here, folks.  Another one of my favorite parts of Boston Organics, is that you can add on a bunch of awesome local products too!  From coffee and tea, to locally made breads, eggs and cheese and pickled items!  

  

I decided to use up those lovely scallions and make the daring, yet delicious curry dip.  Here’s what I did (note: I doubled the recipe in the pictures, but the recipe is the regular serving):  

  

To 1 block of softened cream cheese, add:  

½ tsp of curry powder  

½ tsp of turmeric  

4-6 dashes of Tabasco sauce  

Mix the above together and spread on bottom of dish.  

  

Mix:  

1/3 cup of red pepper jelly  

1/3 cup of mango chutney  

Spread above on top of the cream cheese mixture.  

Take:  

¼ cup of chopped green onions or scallions  

¼ cup of golden raisins (I couldn’t find golden raisins that day, so I used regular)  

¼ cup of roasted cashews (the recipe actually called for pine nuts, but I’m offended by how expensive pine nuts are, and the cashews were just as good, if not better)  

  

Spread above 3 ingredients on top.  Serve with crispy pita chips and dive right into curry dip heaven.  This dip has unbelievable flavor and was a huge hit when I brought it to my Uncle Jack’s birthday party.  

  

  

It’s so fun to get home from work to an awesome crate full of organic goodies.  Not knowing what exactly what you’ll receive is fun because then can come up with creative ways of using all of the produce.  If you live in Boston or a surrounding city that the company delivers to, I definitely recommend Boston Organics.  

- Jackie

Published in: on July 20, 2010 at 6:33 am  Comments (1)  

Barbeque Chicken Salad

This is not the first time I’ve blogged about barbeque.  And it probably won’t be the last.  I’ve grown to like barbeque sauce so much that for my birthday last week my parents gave me this giant vat of Sweet Baby Ray’s, shown here with a watermelon purely for scale (watermelon was not part of the salad). 

Needless to say, you should probably brace yourselves for many more barbeque recipes.  

Last week I made myself a big dinner salad, inspired by a salad at the Cheesecake Factory.  Their salads are all amazing, albeit not very good for you.  I don’t often eat there, but when I do I’m so overwhelmed by their ridiculously huge menu that I tend to default to the barbeque chicken salad because I know it’s good (and it makes my decision way easier).   Here’s what I did:

First I roasted some chicken tenders in Sweet Baby Ray’s (of course) sauce.   Once they were done, I let them cool on the counter, then refrigerated them for later.  I assembled most of the salad early in the day, which made dinnertime much easier, and it was nice to get the hot oven part of the day done early.

Then I drained and rinsed a can of black beans and a can of corn.

I rinsed a package of organic mixed greens, then tossed in the corn, beans, and some grape tomatoes that I had halved.

When it was time for dinner, I added avocado (one of my top ten favorite foods… I think… perhaps I should make a list… and laminate it), a few of the bbq chicken tenders, and a light ranch dressing.  I don’t often use storebought dressing, but I didn’t feel like making my own; I also don’t often eat creamy dressings, but for this salad, ranch is really good.  Next time, if I’m not feeling lazy, perhaps I’ll make my own chipotle ranch to add a little heat.

The salad was perfect for a super hot day (super hot summer!), and with the greens, beans, tomatoes, avocado, and lean chicken, it was a pretty healthy dinner.  Several dinners, actually, as is my M.O. 

Do you have a favorite summertime salad???

- Elizabeth

Published in: on July 19, 2010 at 9:42 am  Comments (1)  

Garlic Scape Pesto

“What the blog is a garlic scape?”  is something you would have heard me ask not two months ago.  Then all the sudden all I hear about is garlic scapes.  Okay, maybe not all I hear about, but it seems to have burst into my food blogging life pretty rapidly.  So what is a garlic scape you say?  The scape or stalk serves as the stem from which the seed head of the garlic bulb is formed and in the spring, the scape is then removed in order to focus all the garlic’s energy into bulb growth (thank you Wiki and Wisegeek for the definition).  The garlic scape has a lovely mild garlic taste to it, much like chives.   I had read so many blogs and articles about garlic scape pesto, I decided to give it a whirl.  One of the things I love most about making pestos is that you don’t have to make the everyday basil/pine nut variety.  You can use whatever herb you want and whatever nut you want…and presto, you have great pesto.  Lame play on words? Yea, I thought so too.  Anyways, here’s what I did…

2 bundles of garlic scapes

1 cup grated parmesan cheese

1/2 cup toasted, chopped walnuts

1 or so cups of olive oil

First, I chopped up the scapes and whirled it around the (mini) food processor.  And did the same with the parmesan cheese.

Then, chop up the walnuts even finer and add it all back into the food processor.  Drizzle in the oil olive slowly, and of course add more or less oil as needed.  When it’s all combined, sprinkle in some pepper and salt if desired and voila!  You’ve got yourself some garlic scape pesto!

The walnuts in the recipe make a huge difference in balancing out the garlic flavor, but really any nut will do.  This recipe makes a lot of the pesto, but you’ll want a ton since it’s so yummy!  That night for dinner, I put the pesto on top of some haddock fillets, wrapped them in tin foil and grilled it.  Soooo delicious.  But you can also use the pesto as a spread in a sandwich, or lather it on some bread (see below), use it on top of bruscetta or as my friend Jen loves it: topped on a piping hot grilled wheel of brie cheese served with crostini.  So many things you can use pesto for, and it’s super easy to make! 

- Jackie

Published in: on July 15, 2010 at 6:33 am  Comments (2)  

Nineteen Minutes by Jodi Picoult

I usually read a lot of books, but now that I’m on summer vacation, I’ve been reading like crazy.  Pretty much a book every 2 days… 3-4 books per week.   I’ve been to two used book stores recently and stocked up on some books that I’ve been wanting to read for a while, like Water for Elephants (finished that about 30 minutes ago – excellent book!), The Time Traveler’s Wife, and the Percy Jackson series (yes, kids’ books, but keeping up on those is part of my job!).  

One of my latest favorite authors is Jodi Picoult.  Since I don’t often buy books,  if I have a particular book I want to read I usually have to wait until someone either passes it on to me, it’s in stock at the library, or I find it at a good used book store.   So it’s taken me a while to get my hands on more of Jodi Picoult’s books.  Last year I read My Sister’s Keeper, Change of Heart, and Tenth Circle (all so good), and a few months ago I started Handle with Care but had to put it down because it upset me.  (Sometimes that happens – I still haven’t been able read The Lovely Bones.)   What I love about Jodi (yep, first name basis) is that her books are very readable and engaging, but they’re a far cry from predictable, “fluffy” novels.  The characters are well developed, and the central issue is always controversial, current, and thoroughly researched and presented.  With most of her novels, I end up not knowing what I want the outcome to be – which is a change from many of the books I read, where I can unequivocally predict that the outcome will be happily ever after. 

Last week I read (in a matter of hours) Jodi Picoult’s Nineteen Minutes, which is a Columbine-esque story of a high school shooting.   Many of you may have read it when it came out years ago… but for those who haven’t read it, I won’t spoil any major plot points.   This novel was particularly interesting to me because it dealt heavily with the issue of bullying.   What we’ve learned about real-life cases is that the shooters are often students who were victimized by their peers – bullied, ridiculed, alienated.   Nineteen Minutes delves deeply into the life of the shooter and examines his ten years of misery at school.  While his vengeful actions were certainly inexcusable, the reader is left feeling truly sorry for this boy, and horrified by how his peers have treated him throughout the years. 

 Nineteen Minutes by Jodi Picoult

The issue of bullying has taken center stage in the education world over the past few years, and gained strength here in Massachusetts the past few months after the tragic suicide of Phoebe Prince, a student who was taunted and tortured by classmates until she simply couldn’t take it anymore.   I teach 4th grade, not high school, but bullying is still an issue – and at the elementary level the focus is on education and prevention.   What we try to instill in our students is that bullying is not just what they see on Disney Channel sitcoms; it’s not just when a big tough jock stuffs a nerdy kid into a locker or steals his lunch money.  Bullying is so much more – as we tell our 4th graders, bullying is being unkind to someone in any way.  That could be stealing someone’s lunch money.  But more likely, it’s much simpler, subtle, and common, like excluding someone from playing at recess.  Or talking about a classmate behind her back.  Or making fun of someone’s athletic skills at gym class.  Certainly some acts of bullying are worse that others, but at this age the most important message to send is that kindness is the key.   I won’t bore you with specific anti-bullying lessons or other teacher talk.  But what I’ve taken away from my own teaching of these issues is that everyone (including me… perhaps especially me) can and should be kinder.  For me, that means not making fun of someone’s clothes, or not obviously avoiding someone just because they kind of bug me.   I think we also need to be on the lookout for those lost souls, who even as adults have a tendency to cower or alienate themselves because of past acts of cruelty.   That’s one lesson I do try to instill in my students – if you know someone is being bullied, even just a little bit, it’s your job to be kind to them.   You can’t erase the effects of the bullying, but you can provide a much needed lifeline for that one person.   I  know that everyone is bullied at some point, and some people deal with it much better than others and don’t experience long-term effects.  It’s those people who don’t or can’t deal with it well that can end up in extreme circumstances, such as in Nineteen Minutes

And so ends my diatribe on the state of bullying in our culture.   It’s just such a big issue right now, even with adults.  There was a segment on the Today show a while back about bullying within the soccer mom crowd.   It’s pervasive and relevant, and Jodi Picoult really did justice to the issue.   I can’t wait to read her most recent novel, House Rules, about an autistic boy.   Yet another topic relevant to teaching.   I’ll pad my blogs with lots of recipes before I delve into another teaching related entry… promise. 

- Elizabeth

Published in: on July 14, 2010 at 8:39 am  Comments (2)  
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